2torial #0865:
Learn2 Be a Good Babysitter (continued)

Meet the family

Try to arrive at a new client's house about 15 to 20 minutes early. You'll need to gather a lot of data before the parents leave.

Get the facts. Parents on their way out can be frazzled. If they don't have this information together for you, ask for it:

• Numbers where you can reach them (including cell phone)

• Emergency numbers: fire, police, pediatrician, emergency room, poison control center, rescue squad, neighbors, and taxi

• Location of first aid and emergency supplies (fire extinguishers, flashlight, batteries, candles, and so on). Make sure the house's address and phone number are next to the phone, so you can tell emergency workers where you are if necessary.

• Tour the house, so you know where the childrens' rooms and bathroom are. Ask how to work locks and any alarm system.

Learn the rules. Now is your chance to find out the parents' expectations about a number of things:

• Television: Can the kids watch television or videos? For how long, and what programs? Can they play video or computer games? Do the parents mind if you watch television after the kids go to bed?

• Games: Can you take the kids out in the yard or to the park to play? Are there any games and toys they especially like? Are there places they aren't allowed to play?

• Food: When and what should they eat, and what can't they eat? Any allergies or eating problems? What can you eat?

• Baths and bed: Should you bathe the children before bed? When is bedtime? What are the bedtime rituals (tooth brushing, face washing, stories, nightlights)? Can they have snacks or drinks close to bedtime?

• Medication: Does a child take any medication? When? How is it administered?

• Pets: Should you feed any pets, or let them out or in? Can the pets sleep with the children?

• People: Are the parents expecting any visitors or telephone calls? Can other children come over and play, or can the kids you're sitting go to a friend's house (find out which friend, and where they live).

Meet the kids. When you enter a family's home, children may start crying--your arrival means mom and dad are going away. When they do leave, more trauma can ensue. Stay calm and don't take it personally. Reassure the children that their parents will be back, and start playing with something (like blocks, cars, or dolls) where they can see you. Soon enough, curiosity should conquer their tears.