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| Gift registry. Couples planning a wedding often register at one or more stores. This means they make a list of the store's merchandise (linens, china patterns, and so on) that they'd like to receive as wedding gifts. The store then keeps track of what's been bought, minimizing duplicate or unwanted gifts. |
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If you're tempted to make the shower a surprise affair, don't. The bride and groom will be expecting a shower (so feigning nonchalance will be hard), and they'll be incredibly busy as the wedding draws near (so possibly unavailable). They're also the best people to ask when you're stuck for inspiration or information. Workplace showers may be an exception: They're usually not the main shower, so the surprise is easier to pull off. Talk about presents. Even old-school etiquette mavens agree: It's proper to include gift registry information in the shower invitation. Ask the couple where they're registered, or else try to get a general sense of what they hope to receive at the shower and the wedding. As the host, you'll be the one that stymied shower guests turn to for gift ideas.
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Consult the bride and groom
