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2torial #0447:
Learn2 Cope with
a Crying Child
"I just can't get him to stop crying!"
A crying baby can create a very frustrating
situation for even the most patient adult.
Something is wrong, but what? It's a big, confusing
world, and babies aren't the only ones who can feel
helpless.
Don't get frustrated: babies can't use words,
and crying is their way of communicating. Try
different approaches, but give each approach time
enough to work before trying something new.
Prevent
The most important steps can be made before the
baby ever begins to cry. Try these steps as
prevention:
- Be consistent in your actions: most babies
like ritual. Try to prevent crying by keeping to
the same schedules in feeding, changing, and
naptime.
- Provide the baby with as much attention as
possible early on. Proximity will provide the
adult with a better understanding of the baby's
needs and thus create a better relationship.
- Tend to the baby's diet: Consult your
pediatrician to understand your baby's
nutritional requirements.
Respond
Respond quickly to the crying. There's no
telling what the reasons for your baby's crying
until you investigate. And don't worry, it's
practically impossible to spoil baby by rapid
attention. The longer a baby cries, the more
difficult the interpretation.
The obvious problems should be examined first,
such as the full diapers (change), empty bottles
(fill), or a full gas tank (burp). But once these
have been evaluated, it's time to research.
Adjust
Sometimes minor physical changes are necessary
to settle the baby's nerves.
- Rock gently: rock the baby in your arms or a
cradle or carriage. Do not shake the baby, as
this can harm him or her.
- Take a walk: Go for a walk with the baby in
a carrier, in a sling, or in your arms.
- Pass the baby off: A fresh set of arms can
do wonders. It can be amazingly straining to
care for a crying baby, and the baby can sense
your anguish.
- Go for a ride: When they need to relax,
babies generally respond well to car rides and
stroller rides. Remember - you drive. Please
secure the baby in an approved car seat before
starting the engine.
- Adjust excitement: A new world, new faces,
new language: there is a lot of excitement
involved with being a baby. Limit visitors if it
becomes too much for the baby.
Adjust air intake: Gulping of air can cause
great discomfort for baby. If you keep the baby
upright during feeding, you will keep the air
intake at a minimum.
Accommodate
You need not drop what you're doing and lose
your composure every time the baby cries: a few
minutes of crying is not going to harm the child.
But here are some ways to attend to the crying when
you are trying to understand the cause:
- Communicate: Entertain the baby by speaking
to it and narrating your activities.
- Cuddle the baby: Hold the baby close to your
chest to give the baby a sense of security.
- Sing, sing a song: If your baby enjoys your
singing, or perhaps just one song, hurrah! Sing
it again. Even your humming or the humming of a
fan may relax the child.
- Give the baby a massage: Most babies enjoy
being caressed, either on the back, arms or
legs.
- Give the baby a bath: Some babies enjoy a
warm (not hot!) bath.
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